this is what a relationship is to me:
partners – one suffers both suffer. one prospers, both prosper. equal living conditions, if one starves, the other splits whatever they have and they both eat something. real partners are there for eachother when the other falters or needs help.
decisions – big life decisions that affect both of them are at least talked about and both sides give opinions. moving, new jobs, things that take time away from them being together. not “i’ll make this decision and if it doesn’t work oh well.”
living – if people never ever intend to comprimise and live together, then the relationship isn’t ever headed anywhere. how can you like someone but not stand the idea of living with them.
im tired of being a fuck toy.